Hi Zuri,
How can I regain my personal power after experiencing a major life change like a breakup or a job loss?
– Rebecca
Hi Rebecca!
I see you, love. Major life shifts—whether it’s a breakup or a job loss—can rock us to our core. It can feel like the whole world is turning upside down, and all we want is to find solid ground again. I get it, I really do. But let me tell you something: You’ve got everything you need inside of you to rise from this and create a brand-new chapter that is even more beautiful than you ever imagined.
It all starts with you.
I want to share a story with you, one that I believe will light a spark in your heart.
A while back, I worked with a client named Megan. She had just gone through a major life shift—her long-term relationship ended, she was laid off from her job, and suddenly, she was living in a small apartment, feeling completely lost, confused, and uncertain about what came next. It was as if everything had crumbled around her.
But here’s the truth about Megan: She was so much stronger than she realized. She just needed a little guidance to reconnect with her power. We began by focusing on her—on her dreams, her passions, the things she had put on hold for years. And slowly, step by step, Megan started to rebuild. She started volunteering for a cause she cared about. She took online courses to sharpen her skills. She even started writing again (something she hadn’t done in years).
And guess what? Things began to shift. The more Megan showed up for herself, the more the universe showed up for her. She landed a job in a field she’d always dreamed of, found a supportive community, and—most importantly—rediscovered her belief in herself.
It wasn’t easy. It didn’t happen overnight. But with clarity, focus, and a little support, Megan rose stronger than ever.
And guess what? You can too.
Step 1: Rescue Yourself—Because You Are Your Own Hero
Stop waiting for someone or something outside of you to “save” you. The only person who can truly help you rise is YOU. It’s time to trust your own strength. When you put your worth in the hands of others, you give away your power. But when you lean into your own resilience, you magnetize the right people and opportunities into your life.
Step 2: Embrace Conscious Living
It’s all about being present. Right here. Right now. Don’t get stuck in the past or overthink what went wrong. The energy of change is here, and it’s waiting for you to embrace it. Stay awake, stay curious, and keep your heart open to what’s possible now.
Step 3: Spring Clean Your Life
It’s time to clear out the clutter—physically, emotionally, mentally, and spiritually. Take a look at what’s no longer serving you. Whether it’s toxic people, negative habits, or situations that drain your energy, clear them out. Make space for what deserves to be there. Trust me, once you start letting go of what doesn’t serve you, you make room for the life you truly want.
Step 4: Trust Your Inner Compass
You’ve got a built-in guidance system that’s always available to you. Your intuition is your best friend. It’s like having a personal GPS for life. When something feels off—whether it’s a decision or a relationship—trust your gut. The more you listen, the more you align with your true path.
Step 5: Meditation & Mindset—Your Inner Glow Is Ready
Start meditating—even if it’s just 10 minutes a day. This is where your magic happens. This is where you connect with your highest self and tap into your intuition. While you’re at it, kick that inner critic to the curb. Rewrite your story. You are worthy. You are limitless. You are abundant.
Step 6: Change Your Thoughts, Change Your Life
What you think about, you attract. If you believe you’re not worthy of love or success, that’s what will show up. But if you shift your mindset to align with the life you truly desire—well, get ready for all of that goodness to flow in.
Step 7: Cut Out Toxic People, Places, and Situations
You’ve got full permission to walk away from anything that doesn’t lift you up. Toxic relationships? Time to say goodbye. A draining work environment? Time to step out. The more space you create, the more room there is for what’s aligned with your highest good.
Step 8: Take Bold Action—Manifest Your Dream Job
Manifesting your dream job isn’t about sitting back and waiting for it to magically appear. It’s about showing up, taking bold action, and trusting the process. Invest in yourself—take a class, master a new skill, refresh that resume, and network with intention. Apply for the roles that make your heart leap! No hesitation. The universe rewards those who show up and show out. So get out there and let your brilliance shine. Your dream job is ready for you—go claim it!
Step 9: Don’t Wait for Mr. Right—Go Live Your Best Life
You don’t need someone else to complete you—you’re already whole. It’s time to live life fully. Travel, take that class, explore new hobbies, and meet new people. When you start living for yourself, that’s when everything else falls into place.
Step 10: Believe In the Possibility of Change
Change is inevitable, beautiful soul. But how you respond to it? That’s what determines your next chapter. This is your moment to rise, to reinvent, to build the life you’ve always dreamed of. Trust in your own power. Trust in the magic of change.
Step 11: Invest in Your Personal Growth
Don’t skip out on investing in YOU. Work with a coach, therapist, or mentor who can help you break through any barriers holding you back. The work you do now will set you up for everything that’s meant to come.
Need clarity or guidance on your next steps?
If you’re feeling a little lost, or need someone to help you get clear on your next move, I’m here for you. Reach out, and let’s work together to help you align with your purpose.
Rebecca, your time to rise is now. You are worth every ounce of this journey. Bet on yourself, and watch the magic unfold.
With love and unwavering belief in you,
xo Zuri